Conference links men's roles and furthering of the culture

by: Jack McNeel / Indian Country Today

PLUMMER, Idaho - It was billed as a Native Men and Culture Conference, but about equal numbers of women were in attendance at the Wellness Center on the Coeur d'Alene Reservation. The conference was organized by tribal member Jon Skwanqhqn, who had attended a similar conference on the Tohono O'odham Nation and had been impressed with the results they had attained. ''I want to get the community back as a whole,'' he said.

Newly elected tribal council member Charlotte Nilson represented the tribe in welcoming those in attendance.

''When we think of awareness, we look to our fathers. The fathers here have to make a better life for children and the community.''

Six panels were assembled to speak on various issues, including wellness, the importance of education and the role of men in passing on customs and traditions, Native ceremony, spirituality and justice issues, and the role of men supporting their families.

While the topics of many panels tended to overlap, the principal message came through with each: Culture and tradition need to be maintained, and fathers must take a leading role in providing teaching and direction to be a positive example for the young.

Bob Sobotta, of the Coeur d'Alene Tribal School, has served many roles in education. He encouraged parents and grandparents to volunteer at schools.

''You're always welcome. Your kids really want and need you. They want to connect with their ancestry and culture. Parents and grandparents can be the main mentors and must provide the spiritual element. Kids need that to hang on to.''

Chris Meyer, Coeur d'Alene Tribal School, also spoke about education with 32 years experience in that field.

''My goal would be to provide strong self-esteem for all kids.''

She explained that was accomplished through parents providing not only the physical needs, but also safety, love and belonging.

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